

Derek Hagen, CFA, CFP®, FBS®, CFT™
“Wealth is the ability to fully experience life.”
-Henry David Thoreau
Financial planning works best when money is treated as a tool that supports a meaningful life.
The Fisherman and the Businessman
A businessman visits a small coastal village and notices the same fisherman rowing in every afternoon with a small catch.
Curious, he asks how long it takes to catch the fish.
“It doesn’t take long,” the fisherman replies.
“Then why not stay out longer and catch more?” the businessman asks.
“I catch enough to feed my family. That’s all I need.”
“So what do you do with the rest of your time?”
The fisherman smiles.
“I play with my kids. I take a nap with my wife. In the evenings, I meet friends, play music, and enjoy life.”
The businessman shakes his head.
“You’re thinking too small. You should fish longer, sell more, buy more boats, hire people, build a company, and eventually become very rich.”
“And then what?” the fisherman asks.
“Then you could retire,” the businessman says. “You could spend your days fishing, playing with your kids, taking naps with your wife, and enjoying music and drinks with your friends.”
The story is humorous, but it raises an important question for financial planners: What is all this money actually for?

When Wealth Becomes the Goal
In traditional financial conversations, it’s easy for the accumulation of assets to quietly become the primary objective.
Clients are often told to save more, invest more, optimize more, and grow their portfolios as large as possible.
And while financial discipline is valuable, the question beneath it is often left unexamined:
To what end?
Author Bill Perkins, in Die With Zero, challenges the assumption that accumulating more money is always better. Many people who are disciplined enough to build significant wealth end up dying with far more than they ever needed.
His question is simple but powerful: How much better could their lives have been if they had used some of that money along the way?
When wealth accumulation becomes disconnected from life itself, something is backwards.
Financial planning should not merely answer how to accumulate wealth.
It should help clients answer why they are accumulating it.

Wealth is More Than Money
At Money Quotient, we often refer to the concept of True Wealth—a broader view of well-being that extends beyond financial assets.
Sahil Bloom describes a similar idea in The Five Types of Wealth, identifying five forms of wealth people pursue:
- Financial wealth
- Time wealth
- Physical wealth
- Mental wealth
- Social wealth
Most people—and many financial systems—focus heavily on just one of these.
Financial wealth.
But financial wealth is fundamentally different from the others.
It is instrumental.
The others are experiential.
Financial wealth is the tool.
The others are the experience.

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Financial Wealth Funds True Wealth
Financial wealth has value only because it supports the other forms of wealth.

You can think of it this way:
There are four forms of True Wealth:
- Time wealth
- Physical wealth
- Mental wealth
- Social wealth
And there is one form of tool wealth:
- Financial wealth

Financial resources make it possible to:
- Create margin in life (time wealth)
- Maintain health and vitality (physical wealth)
- Reduce stress and support emotional well-being (mental wealth)
- Invest in relationships and community (social wealth)
Money enables these experiences.
But money is not the experience itself.
It is the fuel in the car—not the destination.
The Real Question for Financial Planners
The fisherman in the earlier story already possessed many forms of True Wealth.
He had:
- Time wealth
- Social wealth
- Mental well-being
- Enough physical capacity to live his life fully
He may not have had extraordinary financial wealth, but he had sufficient financial resources to support the life he valued.
This doesn’t mean money doesn’t matter. Financial security reduces stress. A safety net creates stability. Responsible planning provides freedom and resilience.
But after “enough,” the nature of the conversation changes.
It’s no longer: How much more can we accumulate?
It becomes: What is this wealth meant to support?
For financial planners, that shift is where meaningful planning begins.
Helping clients grow their assets is important.
Helping them align those assets with their values, priorities, and lived experiences is even more important.
Because ultimately, financial wealth is most valuable when it funds True Wealth.
Want to Learn More?
Money Quotient trains financial professionals in the True Wealth process and helps them implement the concepts into their practices. The first step is to learn about the Fundamentals of True Wealth Planning.
References and Influences
Bloom, Sahil: The Five Types of Wealth
Burkeman, Oliver: Four Thousand Weeks
Crosby, Daniel: The Soul of Wealth
Dunn, Elizabeth & Michael Norton: Happy Money
Ellis, Linda: “The Dash”
Hagen, Derek: Money’s Purpose in Your Life
Perkins, Bill: Die With Zero
Robin, Vicki: Your Money or Your Life
